As much as people are saying she's finally "free" I think that's far from the case. The conservatorship is broken but the emotional, spiritual and psychological damage is very apparent and I'm not sure I blame her for not being able to trust anyone to help her through it all. It seems like the beginning of another rough road for her. We need to get Felicia in there!
Jessica this post really resonates with what I thought after listening to the first part of the "..Daddy" podcast. (I hate that podcast name TBH!)
One thing that really sort of hit me over the head was the realization that JL was a kid! I'm not sure how I forgot that but she wasn't in control of her own destiny at the time either.
I applaud that JL has people around her that offered her guidance and got her to an attorney to push the emancipation move. Maybe if she would stop crying about being hurt and realized that Britney didn't have anyone around her to push that self-protection she would be a little more understanding about Britney's hurt and anger. And on the flip side, if Brit was able to work through her emotions in a healthy way and realize JL was really just a kid and had no way to "help" at the time.
And last of all - you are 100% spot on - Shame on their parents for all of this! They have always been the parents of multiple children and clearly they had the focus on the one who was financially supporting them.
First, I’ll say it takes guts to say “maybe I had this wrong” which is why I always adore your perspective so much. Second, yes I’m with you about wondering if B is ok. I’m less concerned with the feud among sisters… as the youngest of 3 girls, we still hurl insults and hold grudges and this to me feels very much like family issues just with more money and on a more public stage. Ultimately, worried about Britney. Because if the hair & makeup were such a big deal while she was under her c-ship, why isn’t it addressed yet? I dont actually care what she looks like…but wasn’t that one of the “things”? Maybe I’m misremembering… something is still off though.
This is all so heartbreaking. I am rooting for B to be able to live a normal life and develop emotionally past the trauma. I agree with your suspicion of Sam. I hope he has good intentions and loves her. The last thing she needs is another vulture.
I felt the same way after listening to the podcast about JL. On the topic of Sam her fiance, do we know how they could have met if it was during the conservatorship? That's the main reason I don't trust him, it makes me think he was vetted by all of the people she was trying to free herself from but I could be wrong. Would love your take on that!
As always you are spot on. I am and have been worried for Brittney for sometime. It's like the lights are on but no one is home. I also am always waiting for a glimpse of her to come forth. I do still feel like she is on some heavy meds or not one them at all. not sure what it is. PS - I don't trust Her fiancé at all!
I get mad every time I read or even say Jamie Lynn's name. That level of narcissism is off the charts. Britney Jean didn't get either parents name. The older brother (where is he?!) got James for a middle name... but for your last child.. a daughter to have both the mom and dad's name.. that's just ew. I get a Jr and even a female Jr... but ew.
Anyway.. I agree with you. It's just sad. I think we all see some manic tendencies and therapy needed but who the heck can she trust and should she trust!? Ugh. She needs something WITH her sister so they can get each other's view in a safe environment with mediation so they can both share and feel and validate and heal and then have each other because only THEY FULLY understand the house they grew up in. It makes a big difference having someone who "gets it" without further explanation.
Also... this book just feels like opportunistic timing. I can't. Poor timing. But when have these girls ever had consideration and good advice. Ever.
Lol I’m old and dont even know what a substack was/is. All I want to know is what you learned today, as I would never now listen to any news outlet for anything anymore. - I have followed you starting with Brian laundrie (became completely obsessed and got at least a dozen people to follow you) and had never even heard of #freebritney. I became a daily fan and when you don’t post, I’m sad. I love your sons jokes, your dedication to real news and your flair for fashion. Lol. Thank you for being who you are and I like the ceiling wood colored. As Nina says, subscribing is one of my best decisions this week. So glad you’re out there doing your passion! Thank you🤎
I think you are right on. Britney does not sound like she is in a good place right now and having it play out over social media is a train wreck. I think you bring up really valid points on the fact that JL was subjected to the same dysfunction. I just wish that they could work it out privately. I just don’t like the release of this book right now. I don’t know if JL is hurting for money but it seems that would be the only reason to do it which is sad.
What a relief to hear you say you are worried about Britney. I’ve been wondering if B is ok since I’ve started following you. I’ve lived and dealt with mental illness personally and in my opinion she is not stable based on my experiences. Thank you for your honest reporting.
So damn complicated. Brit's parents languishing in the Destin Pan Handle FL condo?. Anyone remember Ashley Judd in RUBY IN PARADISE (1993) shot in Destin?
Britney is far from ok. She desperately needs people in her corner to help her process the nightmare that was her life. Her appearance is stunted, like a frozen time capsule from the beginning of her lock down. The bizarre Instagram posts are disturbing. Not because she’s crazy, but because it’s evident she has no clue how to handle all of the emotional thoughts and feelings about her life.
As much as people are saying she's finally "free" I think that's far from the case. The conservatorship is broken but the emotional, spiritual and psychological damage is very apparent and I'm not sure I blame her for not being able to trust anyone to help her through it all. It seems like the beginning of another rough road for her. We need to get Felicia in there!
Subscribing to your substack is one of the best decisions I’ve made all week.
Jessica this post really resonates with what I thought after listening to the first part of the "..Daddy" podcast. (I hate that podcast name TBH!)
One thing that really sort of hit me over the head was the realization that JL was a kid! I'm not sure how I forgot that but she wasn't in control of her own destiny at the time either.
I applaud that JL has people around her that offered her guidance and got her to an attorney to push the emancipation move. Maybe if she would stop crying about being hurt and realized that Britney didn't have anyone around her to push that self-protection she would be a little more understanding about Britney's hurt and anger. And on the flip side, if Brit was able to work through her emotions in a healthy way and realize JL was really just a kid and had no way to "help" at the time.
And last of all - you are 100% spot on - Shame on their parents for all of this! They have always been the parents of multiple children and clearly they had the focus on the one who was financially supporting them.
Thanks for your work Jess!
First, I’ll say it takes guts to say “maybe I had this wrong” which is why I always adore your perspective so much. Second, yes I’m with you about wondering if B is ok. I’m less concerned with the feud among sisters… as the youngest of 3 girls, we still hurl insults and hold grudges and this to me feels very much like family issues just with more money and on a more public stage. Ultimately, worried about Britney. Because if the hair & makeup were such a big deal while she was under her c-ship, why isn’t it addressed yet? I dont actually care what she looks like…but wasn’t that one of the “things”? Maybe I’m misremembering… something is still off though.
This is all so heartbreaking. I am rooting for B to be able to live a normal life and develop emotionally past the trauma. I agree with your suspicion of Sam. I hope he has good intentions and loves her. The last thing she needs is another vulture.
I felt the same way after listening to the podcast about JL. On the topic of Sam her fiance, do we know how they could have met if it was during the conservatorship? That's the main reason I don't trust him, it makes me think he was vetted by all of the people she was trying to free herself from but I could be wrong. Would love your take on that!
As always you are spot on. I am and have been worried for Brittney for sometime. It's like the lights are on but no one is home. I also am always waiting for a glimpse of her to come forth. I do still feel like she is on some heavy meds or not one them at all. not sure what it is. PS - I don't trust Her fiancé at all!
I get mad every time I read or even say Jamie Lynn's name. That level of narcissism is off the charts. Britney Jean didn't get either parents name. The older brother (where is he?!) got James for a middle name... but for your last child.. a daughter to have both the mom and dad's name.. that's just ew. I get a Jr and even a female Jr... but ew.
Anyway.. I agree with you. It's just sad. I think we all see some manic tendencies and therapy needed but who the heck can she trust and should she trust!? Ugh. She needs something WITH her sister so they can get each other's view in a safe environment with mediation so they can both share and feel and validate and heal and then have each other because only THEY FULLY understand the house they grew up in. It makes a big difference having someone who "gets it" without further explanation.
Also... this book just feels like opportunistic timing. I can't. Poor timing. But when have these girls ever had consideration and good advice. Ever.
Lol I’m old and dont even know what a substack was/is. All I want to know is what you learned today, as I would never now listen to any news outlet for anything anymore. - I have followed you starting with Brian laundrie (became completely obsessed and got at least a dozen people to follow you) and had never even heard of #freebritney. I became a daily fan and when you don’t post, I’m sad. I love your sons jokes, your dedication to real news and your flair for fashion. Lol. Thank you for being who you are and I like the ceiling wood colored. As Nina says, subscribing is one of my best decisions this week. So glad you’re out there doing your passion! Thank you🤎
I think you are right on. Britney does not sound like she is in a good place right now and having it play out over social media is a train wreck. I think you bring up really valid points on the fact that JL was subjected to the same dysfunction. I just wish that they could work it out privately. I just don’t like the release of this book right now. I don’t know if JL is hurting for money but it seems that would be the only reason to do it which is sad.
What a relief to hear you say you are worried about Britney. I’ve been wondering if B is ok since I’ve started following you. I’ve lived and dealt with mental illness personally and in my opinion she is not stable based on my experiences. Thank you for your honest reporting.
Subscribing was so worth it…. Real journalism at its finest. Thank you. You always view it from the outside looking in at the bigger picture
So damn complicated. Brit's parents languishing in the Destin Pan Handle FL condo?. Anyone remember Ashley Judd in RUBY IN PARADISE (1993) shot in Destin?
Britney is far from ok. She desperately needs people in her corner to help her process the nightmare that was her life. Her appearance is stunted, like a frozen time capsule from the beginning of her lock down. The bizarre Instagram posts are disturbing. Not because she’s crazy, but because it’s evident she has no clue how to handle all of the emotional thoughts and feelings about her life.
I think of myself when I read your words here.
I had a pretty good childhood. with parents who loved me and provided for me. and gave me one of the things children need most: consistency.
and yet still, I need therapy. I need help
all the time. from friends, my husband, my parents.
so to assume everything is sunshine and rainbows and not asshole and elbows seems irresponsible.
thanks for always being honest.
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